DEAR DEIDRE: ON most Friday nights, I stay over with a friend who lives with his mum.
I’m a 24-year-old guy and he is 26. We crash out after a few drinks but I usually get a pair of his mum’s tights out of the laundry basket and wear them overnight.
For years I’ve been obsessed with ladies’ tights but the real buzz for me comes from wearing a pair that has already been worn.
I’ve always loved the sight of a woman with shapely legs and I get a lot of pleasure from wearing my friend’s mum’s tights. I tell myself I am not doing anything wrong, as I would never steal them.
I put them back the next morning, although I do feel a bit ashamed of myself. Is this just a bit of harmless fun or should I stop?
DEIDRE SAYS: Resist the temptation to wear your mate’s mum’s underwear.
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