I really hate having sex with my boyfriend because I desperately want to sleep with other people

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DEAR DEIDRE: BEING intimate with my boyfriend is unbearable. Even when we do have sex, I think of other people.

I’m 28, he is 29. We’ve been together for four years and have a two-year-old. I was a stay-at-home mum before returning to work recently.

I can’t help but think about having sex with other people when I’m being intimate with my boyfriend
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I’ve never cheated but I desperately want to have sex with other people.

I went through a stage of being angry with him when I thought about him having sex with girlfriends before me. Sometimes I couldn’t even speak to him.

I don’t find him attractive now but I can’t break up with him. It would break his heart and, of course, he’s my son’s dad.


DEIDRE SAYS: Sorting out your relationship outside the bedroom should help your sex life.

It’s got to be worth a try before breaking up your little boy’s family.

Relate do online and telephone counselling as well as face-to-face (relate.org.uk).


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