DEAR DEIDRE: THINGS have got boring with my boyfriend – who’s lovely – and I’m hankering for my ex.
Sex was great with my previous bloke but he went to work abroad.
We met up a few times when he was home and it was amazing, as if we had never been apart, but in the end we decided it wasn’t fair on either of us, so we split up.
My new boyfriend and I are 25 and have known each other since childhood. He says he fancies me but we only have sex if I initiate it. It makes me feel unattractive.
I have just heard that my ex is back in England for good. He’s 28. I want to talk to him but I know it is the wrong thing to do.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If your ex has made no effort to get in touch with you, it is unlikely he is eating his heart out for you. At least try to save your relationship with this “lovely” guy you have now.
Tell him you need him to show he desires you or you risk slipping into the friend zone. Try the ideas you will find in my e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex.
If that doesn’t work out, then you can try contacting your ex – when you haven’t so much to lose.
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