During the week, the single mum bottle feeds her adopted baby and leaves her with a day care provider – who has two kids of her own and “seemed amazing”.
Writing to Slate’s Dear Prudence column, the anonymous woman explained the “only bump in the road” was when the day care boss made it clear she wasn’t a fan of formula milk from day one, asking: “You feed her that slop?”
But the mum ignored her, explaining she had no other choice, and said the nursery set-up seemed great otherwise.
However, all that changed when the anonymous mum finished work early one day and decided to pick her daughter up from day care.
“I marched over, took my baby from her arms”
She said: “There is a side door where parents can enter without knocking, so I did that.
“When I got to the area of the house where my daughter was, the day care provider was nursing my baby.
“I marched over, took my baby from her arms, and asked her if she was crazy.
“The provider said that she was saving my baby from chemicals I was trying to force into her body and I should thank her for doing it all these months!”
The horrified mum grabbed her baby’s nappy bag and made a swift exit, but now she can’t decide on what to do next.
She continued: “I am not sending my daughter back there, but should I report her to the umbrella company she is under for home day cares, or should I make a huge blast on social media?
“My sister says I should send out texts to the parents that have kids there so they can do their own check-ins, but that is too much I think.”
Replying to the post, the agony aunt said: “Oh my God. That is my first thought, is just: Oh my God.
“If this isn’t worth reporting her to a supervising agency, I don’t know what is.”